Couples Counselling
You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships every day.You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.
~ Epicurus
Is Counselling Right for You?
Are you wondering if couples counselling is right for your relationship? Couples come to counselling for a broad range of issues; if you find yourself struggling in any of the below-listed areas, then it may be worth considering speaking with a psychologist.
- You are unable to communicate without one or both partners becoming defensive
- You do not feel as though you are able to confide in your partner
- One or both partners have had or are considering an affair
- You find yourself arguing about the same issues and there is no apparent resolution
- One or both partners are struggling with intimacy
- You believe that one partner has to change in order for the relationship to work
- You are going through or want to prepare for a major life transition
- Differences in values
- Grief and loss
How Can Counselling Help
In couples counselling, your psychologist will work with you to develop new patterns of relating to your partner behaviourally, emotionally, and cognitively. This can be achieved through the following:
- Identifying unhelpful communication patterns
- Learning more effective ways of communicating
- Building trust between partners
- Improving sense of connection on both physical and emotional levels
- Enhancing intimacy
- Creating positive experiences between partners
- Learning how to support one another
- Navigating through perpetual problems
- Learning how to fight fair
- Determining mutual goals
- Finding direction forward
- Developing emotional safety and security
What Can We Expect from Couples Counselling?
At YEG Psychology, couples counselling is designed to help you and your partner strengthen your relationship, improve communication, and work toward shared goals. Sessions can take place either virtually or in-person, depending on your preference and comfort.
How Does Confidentiality Work in Couples Therapy?
Your psychologist will explain confidentiality in detail at the start of your first session. An important thing to know at the outset is that your psychologist will not keep secrets between partners; what is disclosed to the psychologist individually is able to be discussed as a couple.
Can One Partner Meet with the Psychologist for Individual Counselling?
Your psychologist is committed to working with you as a couple and is not able to meet with any partner for individual counselling that is outside the scope of couples counselling. If either partner could benefit from individual counselling, the psychologist will discuss this with the couple and refer the individual partner to a trusted colleague.
What is the Length of a Couples Session?
Couples sessions are typically 80 minutes in length. For the second session, the psychologist will meet with individual partners for 40 minutes each. If you feel that you require more or less time per session, this can be discussed with your psychologist.
What is the Cost of a Couples Session?
The cost of an 80-minute session is $352.50 for Master's-level psychologists and $375 for Doctoral-level psychologists. Couples will be billed in 15-minute increments in excess of 80-minutes.